As I type this, I’m sitting in my kitchen wearing giant reading glasses with flowery frames, a Breton top, NYDJ jeans and emerald-green Birkenstocks. I am, in fact, clothed entirely in the accepted uniform of the mid-life middle-class woman. And if you lurked near any independent bookshop for ten minutes, you’d see a hundred versions of my ‘look’ pass by. What should I wear over 50? Do I need to keep up with fashion trends anymore? How does this all work?

Enjoying my flowery frames

It’s not necessarily that we all want to dress like an art teacher holidaying in Polzeath – more that the alternative options as we get older become so hideously unwearable.

Past your forties, the vintage-flamboyant-theatrical look (which I used to love) becomes less manic dream pixie, more ‘would she like a free sandwich?’ While the ‘sharp tailoring’ beloved of fashion magazines can make one look like a weary DI in an ITV drama.

The high street is full of backless, sleeveless, crotch-less and frontless club-wear. And the ‘safe’ options come straight from Miss Marple’s overnight bag.

Worst of all, following fashion trends is like being a groupie for a boy band. You can do it at any age. But you feel a bit of a nelly when everyone else is under 30.

So should I be trying to keep up with fashion trends?

“It’s important to approach fashion trends with the view of ‘that’s what’s in the shops’ rather than ‘that’s what I should be wearing’,” says Bedfordshire-based stylist Lindsay Edwards (lindsayedwardsstylist.com), who works with mature women. “Nowadays, trends are incredibly fast paced, with some micro-trends lasting just weeks. Trying to keep up with them is costly and unsustainable.”

Still, reluctant to be entirely out of the loop, I had a look at Vogue’s fashion diktats. And what the trendsetter is wearing now, it seems, is a muted palette, statement gowns, micro-shorts, white frocks, rose patterns, Polo-but-street, and transparent skirts.

Let’s take those in order. ‘Muted palette, Succession chic’ makes most of us look like we’re on an HR training course, because actual Succession chic relies on having many thousands of pounds to spaff on Jil Sander separates.

Rose patterns make everyone over 40 look like the victim in Midsomer Murders, and ‘Polo but street’ is just inexplicable; “I sell drugs on horseback”?

Camel-coloured M&S slacks and a mushroom waterfall cardigan are more ‘right, Shelley, let’s say you’re dealing with a raft of redundancies…’

‘Statement gowns’ don’t suit dog walking, particularly in rural areas, while micro-shorts can make us curvier types look like Bella Emberg dressed as Superwoman.

White frocks, while claiming to embody the spirit of Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy, are pure Geri-Halliwell-Puts-On-a-Show-of-Unity. Rose patterns make everyone over 40 look like the victim in Midsomer Murders, and ‘Polo but street’ is just inexplicable; “I sell drugs on horseback”?

As for transparent skirts – I wouldn’t even wear a transparent hat these days.

Finding your own style, sustainably

The truth is, by our stage of life we’ve evolved beyond trends, which mostly exist for 22-year-old St Martins fash’ graduates to get excited about, and for the high street to water down and sell to 16-year-olds, i.e. the only people who can feasibly wear H&M micro-shorts.

But we still want to look good; to find things that suit us and make us feel reasonably stylish – albeit I will never own the holy trinity fashion editor’s selection of ‘a crisp white shirt, a classic trench, and a navy blazer.’ Because I’m not starring in a subtitled film about unfaithful Parisians.

…we’re looking for long-term clothes that justify the spend in a cost of living crisis, and eschew fast fashion

So if trends are no longer worth following, and style means more than boring classics, we’re looking for long-term clothes that justify the spend in a cost of living crisis, and eschew fast fashion – as many of us don’t fancy wearing something that’s going to fall apart in the wash and end up in land-fill.

“Shopping at charity shops or online preloved sites such as Vinted, eBay or Depop is much more environmentally friendly,” says Lindsay Edwards.

It also needs to pass the ‘do I feel happy wearing it?’ test. Recently, I did a full wardrobe cull, and ended up slinging out everything floral, flimsy, or ill-fitting, and anything that made me feel less than cheerful when I put it on.

How do you want to be seen?

“What should I wear over 50?”. “One useful method is to come up with three words which sum up how you’d like to appear,” says Edwards. “‘Chic, elegant and sophisticated’, or ‘quirky, eccentric and interesting’ – perhaps ‘dramatic, bold and powerful’. The aim then is to purchase items of clothing which can be described using those specific words. Over time, you’ll curate a wardrobe with a cohesive sense of style.”

When you wear clothes in the colours and styles that suits you, you’re going to look, and more importantly feel, fantastic

I ended up clinging to a leather jacket, studded ankle boots, several Ghost-style viscose dresses, some decent wide-leg trousers, and several striped tops. Mostly, it comes down to knowing what doesn’t work for you anymore. In my case, front buttons (because they make my chest look like an over-risen loaf), low-waisted jeans (more muffin top than Starbucks at 8am) and high heels – because I want to live, rather than break my neck in a tragic stumble.

Now is also a good time to get heavily into accessories, including cool trainers, stylish sandals, and giant specs and sunglasses, which can be rocked at any age, height and body size – see the late, great Iris Apfel for details.

“One of my most hated phrases is ‘mutton dressed as lamb’,” says Lindsay. “Age is not a factor, and certainly not a barrier to looking incredible. When you wear clothes in the colours and styles that suits you, you’re going to look, and more importantly feel, fantastic.”

If you’re feeling hesitant about what to wear, pairing it with some personalised embellishments is a great option. Patches in clothing decorations are a unique decorative technique. Cartoon patch stickers, embroidered patches, cross stitch patches, etc. can add a unique charm to clothing. In addition, you can also design Custom Patches. Incorporate your creativity and ideas to make the clothing more unique and personalized. This not only adds a unique charm to the clothing but also reflects the love and pursuit of life.

Current buys that withstand passing trends…

The dress

Leopard-print with a twist – wear it anywhere.

Pink and Lilac with Black Shadow Leopard Flute Sleeve Midi Dress, £115, Scamp & Dude

The jacket

A spin on the classic shape, that goes with everything.

Pure Cotton Denim Relaxed Utility Jacket, £45, M&S

The shoes

Cheaper than DMs, edgier than trainers (and comfy).

Lavender Leather Chunky Footbed Sandals, Black, £85, John Lewis

The trousers

A hint of athleisure, with added luxe.

ZENA SATIN TROUSERS – KHAKI,£129, Busby &Fox

The top

Not-quite-Breton, with very flattering summer sleeves.

Black & White Stripe Flutter Sleeve Jersey Top, £35, Oliver Bonas

In addition to clothing, women over 50 can showcase their mature charm through accessories. Hats such as berets and bucket hat, or a scarf can be tied in your hair and become a highlight of the overall look. And choosing different sunglasses based on face shape can make your look pop.

Still wondering ‘what should I wear over 50?’ Read our article on Capsule wardrobe pieces for women over 50.

Flic Everett

Flic Everett is a Mancunian writer who now lives in a cottage in the beautiful West Highlands with her patient husband and two deranged cocker spaniels. She still misses Manchester, and returns like a homing pigeon every month to see family and friends. She spends a lot of time writing on trains.

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Having a simple capsule wardrobe can make it so much easier for you to choose what to wear. The premise is that by carefully curating outfits when you purchase them, you don’t have to get your head in a tangle about it later. Sometimes, having just a few high-quality, versatile pieces is all you need.

Maybe you’ve accumulated lots of clothes over the years and you want to start from fresh. Here are a few items you could consider to form the basis of your new capsule wardrobe.

Simple t-shirts

T-shirts are the staple of casual wear for many a capsule wardrobe. You’ll probably want a combination of long and short-sleeved t-shirts, just to keep all your bases covered. Pick a few neutral shades, and perhaps a colour or two as well. 

Think about the fabric you’re picking. Cotton t-shirts are a nice, soft breathable material. For something more sustainable, look out for organic cotton. 

However, cotton is often easier to shrink in the wash, and the colours may fade. If you’d rather avoid this possibility altogether, look for polyester or a polyester-cotton blend. 

Stylish trousers

Two or three pairs of thoughtfully chosen trousers could also form an important part of your selection. Choose black, grey, camel, or cream if you want to maximise the number of tops you can pair them with. 

Remember that wide-leg trousers generally look best with fitted tops, while skinny or slim-fit trousers can work with either fitted or loose-fitting tops. 

Loose-fitting clothing such as linen trousers are comfy and still perfect for warm summer days. With these, you can easily dress your outfit up or down for the day’s activity.

Many women find high-waisted trousers create a flattering impression. For a woman who is on the shorter side, they give the illusion of longer legs and, thus additional height.

Comfortable dresses

Depending on your style, you may want to stock your capsule closet with a few comfy dresses. The best kind are the ones you can dress up or dress down and adapt to all weather.

A relaxed midi dress can fare well in both summer and autumn. Choose something with loose sleeves to give you that comfort and freedom of movement. 

A smart shirt dress with a belt can often function as office wear or weekend wear.

When dress shopping for a capsule wardrobe ask yourself the following questions:

1. Will smart shoes and casual shoes alike look good with this?
2. Will it work well either on its own or with a jacket?

If the answer to both questions is yes, you’ve got yourself an all-season, multi-purpose dress that’s worth sticking in your basket. 

Outdoor clothes

This is the UK, let’s face it. Not having to reach for layers when stepping out is a luxury reserved for a select part of summer. So, you’ll want one very solid winter coat in your capsule wardrobe, as well as another light jacket for milder weather.

The trench coat never goes out of style and it looks great with a pair of heeled boots.

A pair of classic white shoes (maybe some simple trainers) can also go with most outfits, from summer dresses to trousers and shorts.

Consider shoe purchases carefully and aim to try them on first, if possible. Good foot support and bunion prevention are non-negotiable. 

Finally, complete your edit with a pair of quality slippers and garden shoes. 

Finding out what flatters your body type and then streamlining your wardrobe accordingly can be a fun way to get organised. Ultimately though, don’t lose sight of what you’re comfortable and happy wearing.

Need more wardrobe help? Read Autumn fashion wardrobe staples

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